AITA for sleeping n@ked in my own bedroom?
since i was a teenager i’ve always slept n@ked. i always get too hot at night and its just generally way more comfortable for me to sl@pt that way. whenever i leave my room i’m always dressed, or at the very least have shorts or something on if i’m going to/from the shower. my roommate knows this and up to this point has had no problem with it and we always knock on each others doors anyway to be polite.
the issue started when he brought over his girlfriend to stay a couple nights. we all get along pretty well and have all hung out a few times before, but this was the first time she had come over and spent the night. we had all gone out drinking and got home pretty late so once we all walked in we just went straight to sl@pt. i, of course, went to bed with my usual routine of getting n@ked and hopping in bed. well, sometime during the night my roommate’s girlfriend needed to use the bathroom, but she didn’t know which room it was. my room and the bathroom are right next to each other and she opened my door by mistake. i have a vague memory of her opening my door, but i was half asl@pt and when she closed it i went right back to sl@pt. the next morning i woke up and my roommate and his girlfriend were upset with me because when she walked in she saw everything and she was mad i would sl@pt n@ked when a guest was over in the first place. they both said i need to start wearing clothes to sl@pt since my roommate’s girlfriend is gonna probably be sl@pting over more often and it makes her uncomfortable. my argument was that i’m in my own private space away from them and that while i understand it was a mistake, it’s still her fault that she walked in on me sl@pting.
its been a few days and my roommate still won’t let it go. i still sl@pt n@ked, and now once on purpose he’s walked in on me sl@pting just to see if i was n@ked or not. i don’t really care about him seeing me n@ked cause we’ve seen each other n@ked before, but this is getting really out of hand. i don’t think i should have to wear clothes to sl@pt just because it makes his girlfriend uncomfortable even though i’m in my own private room.
tl;dr my roommate’s girlfriend walked in on me sl@pting n@ked in my own room and now they both want me to start wearing clothes to sl@pt
edit: to everyone saying i should lock my door or add a lock, i would really like to. unfortunately the place we’re staying at doesn’t want us to change the door handles or anything so i can’t do that. however i am currently looking into ways to stop my door from opening that isn’t like a barricade or that drills into the door/wall
