My husband cheated with our much younger neighbor, initiated divorce, and is marrying her
Both, me and my husband are 46, together for a decade. We have 2 children. He climbed the corporate ladder, a very intelligent man and ambitious like no one I ever met. He became the director of the whole company. Hundreds of people under him. With every year however and every promotion he became more arrogant, confident, uptight, stern. strict, demanding and demeaning. He didn’t treat the people very well. He raised his voice often, he had a dictatoral style. He even made a 23 years old girl. a new hire, cry
Because of this we often had conflicts. I work in the same place (he didn’t bring me there, we met there). But I do not report to him. I report to the headquarters. I saw how mean he can be and how intimidating. He wants those goals met and doesn’t care how much pressure he puts on the people. I often call him out, I don’t keep quiet. If he raises his voice at me (which he does often) I raise my voice back at him and put him in his place. He might be the big boss at work, at home he is a husband and a father.
And I found out he has been having an affair with our neighbour, a 30 years old woman who is all a man can dream of. Waist long hair, slim, has big breasts, soft spoken, beautiful. It had been going on for around 3 months.
Her explanation was (to another neighbour) that he acts like she always wanted her father to act. Her father was a lazy, chronically unemployed alcoholic who made her ashamed of herself. My husband was her ideal masculine man. ” Tall, slim, clean cut, blue eyes and who can take control” (I quotes a text she sent to my neighbour).
Husband told me that he wanted her because she was what he wanted a wife to be. To listen to him actively, understand, cook for him (I did cook for all of us but not daily), spoil him. I was against him, he said, and aligned with those lazy subordinates of his. Also he wanted more children and I was too old
He initiated the divorce and was told he is marrying her. I met her at the grocery store yesterday and she waved at me, like she is a winner. And meanwhile I found out she was somewhat of a town’s bicycle
